Speaker and listener

The one that I called a talent before, is becoming a duty for me. It's not an obligation but since I survived once in a bad car crash, miracoulously, I believe the talent is more and more obvious.

And one day in my prayer, I asked God to show me what I should do, to pay what He has done to me especially that day and everyday in my life. Since then I know I have this duty to do and since then, every single day, many people involve with this. It's sometimes tough to do it, but I'm doing it my all my heart. Wondering what is my duty? It's so simple, a LISTENER.

It's really hard to be listener while you're in problem yourself. We are just human, and we have problem too. But luckily I have a very special listener in life. Another hardest thing is that when the problem is talking about life and death, suicide etc.... It's hard subject, but I get used of it, and I decided not to blame myself if something bad happened, Thanks God, there's none until today !  Another hard thing is to keep your mouth shout, because I love talking. But again, if it's about a problem of somebody else, I will keep anonymous, pretended to be Alzheimer, instead I talk a lot of myself.. lol...

I stopped asking myself why people I meet just for a couple of minute, can trust me and telling me all the family problem he/she has. I just do it. Listening...

It's really amazing the power of sharing. If some stressed people are saved from suicide it's because of some hotline like AA (alcoholic anonimous) there's SOS woman, for abused children etc. It's good too if we can go to the psycolog, but sometimes people don't want to go, it's expensive and the psy, it's their job, sometimes, they just get used too much of listening somebody else's problem that we feel they just don't really care about it. Don't forget that they are trained to listen.

But talking with people around you, it's more personal, more comfortable.

So please guys... when you have problem, don't keep it for yourself.. share with other, without saying bad thing about other, find someone you can trust and keep discreet. 

This is not to promote myself, cause I don't ask any pay. It's gonna a bad luck for me if I'm asking money for my debt to God Almighty. But if you have nobody to talk about, just write to me, give me your email or what so ever. Get some help !

IT'S GOOD TO KNOW THE SECRET BUT IT'S BETTER TO KEEP IT DISCREET