Some people questionning me if I told them to learn to be selfish. But let me explain something about me saying to be selfish. Everyday in our life, for 24 hours we always think about others, person or matters. Let us sort it into details : 8 hours for sleeping, 7 hours for work or doing housekeeping or cooking etc, 1 hour for thinking about our children, 1 hour for helping them with their homework, 1 hour for thinking about the home finance, 1 hour for thinking about our spouse, 1 hour for walking & feeding our pet, 1 hour for thinking about our parents & brother sisters, 1 hour for toilet & shower and all together is 22 hours !!! So we still have 2 hours left in ONE DAY... and it's time to be SELFISH, to think about ourself & make ourself happy. For example : 1 hour excercise & 1 hour coffee time with friends or 1 hour chatting & 1 hour crafting... And all of them, without thinking about somebody & something else, just about ourself. There's nothing wrong to be SELFISH as long as it doesn't hurt our family & friends. It's the opposite way, when you take 2 hours for yourself, you will recharge your humour, your attitude and sure, everybody around you will always be happy with you.
This is one way of happiness and happiness is a way for health.
2 comments:
Pleased with your opinion, I think that's what I do well every day, after my time and energy spent on others, I also need to be selfish for 1 or 2 hours. yup .... why not?!
thanks Diane for your comment, it's true we can be more selfish without making others suffer..
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